7 Deadly Mistakes That Can Destroy Even The Strongest Relationships: (Things That Destroy Relationships)

Love isn’t just about first impressions or spotting someone special from the crowd. It is about actually getting to know a person- the hidden versions of them even they don’t know exist. And when you find your true love, you have to fight for it, fight every negativity that can sabotage that relationship. Because if you don’t, you risk losing everything- everything you got that maybe you didn’t deserve, everything you have ever wanted from life and everything you’ve ever wanted to be! On this note, I would like to draw your attention to the fact that no matter how strong a relationship is, if you are not careful, it’s just a matter of seconds for it to become an event of the past. Take a look at these 7 Things That Destroy Relationships.

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Things That Destroy Relationships:

1. Comparing Them To Someone Else

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No matter how great your friends are or your exes have been to you, never ever compare your partner to any of them. Never compare your girlfriend to some hottie you saw across the crowd or your boyfriend to a gym bouncer. No one likes a competitor in relationships. Even if they don’t say anything, they do feel insecure. Let your partner be secure that you love them the most and they are perfect for you.


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2. Defending Someone They don’t like

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Imagine the situation when your significant other doesn’t like a particular friend of yours. No matter how precious that friend is to you, don’t try to defend them in front of your partner. Always tackle such a situation by persuading them to let it go and not trouble themselves for anybody else.


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3. Snoop Into Their Phones

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No matter how loyal your partner is, if you snoop into their phones, you are most likely to find something that you don’t fully understand. So you misinterpret it, then your imagination runs wild, and it turns into a deadly fight that never should’ve happened in the first place.

4. Appreciating The Looks Of Anyone Of The Opposite Sex

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Now, this is gonna sound narrow-minded but it is true! If you tell your boyfriend that there is a guy you know that has a really nice dress sense, he will just nod along. But on the inside, he is most likely to develop a rivalry for the other person making things difficult for you. On the other hand, if a guy praises a female coworker, his girlfriend or wife is most likely to think that she is not good enough for him. This is something you have to be really careful about.

5. Stop Putting In Efforts

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Remember the time when you just started dating? Being all over each other wherever you go, surprise gifts, candle light dinners, and cuddling- sounds like such a magical time! So why stop now? It’s a good thing that you are more secure in your relationship now but that doesn’t mean that you stop putting any effort to keep the sparks flying! Never miss a moment to make your partner feel special. That is the key to a successful relationship. This is one of those Things That Destroy Relationships and make your partner feel that you are taking them for granted.


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6. Keeping score

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Never ever base your actions according to the past. Maybe your girlfriend did a mistake and you said you forgave her. But some time later, you repeat the same mistake and justify that it’s okay because your partner did the same once. That means you have never really forgiven the other person. There are only two options here. Either break up or forgive and forget. If your partner has done a mistake that you don’t think you can live with (ex. cheated on you) then it’s better to break it off rather than waiting for an opportunity of revenge and justifying your action. And if you do forgive them for a mistake, never ever bring it up. Trust me, holding a grudge will never work out in your favor.

7. Not Having Their Back

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Now, this is a bit controversial. Consider an argument between your partner and one of your parents. That is the worst situations of all. If your partner is right then stand up to your parents for them and try to control the situation. This will give your significant other the message that they are your first priority and they should be! But if they are wrong and you can clearly see it, never state it outright. Instead, try to take your partner away from that situation and persuade them to let it go. Tell them that you don’t wanna fight with anyone and spend as much quality time with them as you can. Never ever tell them that they were wrong. Trust me, you are never gonna get to hear the end of it! Also, have you ever been ditched by someone you loved? Or have you left someone? If yes, check this out!


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  1. Vinita Chhajer

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